Sunday, November 3, 2013

Working in the Dark

It is surely men who design hotel rooms. Or young women. One thing a hotel room, even a five star, does not often have is a magnifying makeup mirror. Now some of you might think this to be trivial, but I find it quite essential.

This past weekend in Washington DC I was in just such a difficulty.  The best I could do was to put makeup on blind and then put my glasses on and check it out. The first attempt and my right eyebrow was raised in a look of surprise.  The second attempt and I looked like I had been crying.  The third attempt I poked the mascara brush into my eyeball and I was crying!

Thinking about this on the plane home I realized how much of life is working in the dark. We say things that are misinterpreted, we give advice when we don't have all the facts, we have to love before we know we will be loved back.

The only way this interferes with happiness is if we have a sick need for everything to be perfect. If we can deal with the inevitable raggedness of our humanity and learn to laugh at ourselves a bit more we will be ok.

9 comments:

Soccer Mom said...

"The inevitable raggednes of our humanity" - ah, that is profound. Yes, we are ragged and yes our imperfection is inevitable. But so often, others look polished and beautiful and anything but ragged. I need to remember that we are all Raggedy Anns and Andys, and even those who appear perfect have a broken bit somewhere.

Soccer Mom said...

"The inevitable raggednes of our humanity" - ah, that is profound. Yes, we are ragged and yes our imperfection is inevitable. But so often, others look polished and beautiful and anything but ragged. I need to remember that we are all Raggedy Anns and Andys, and even those who appear perfect have a broken bit somewhere.

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